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Are You Tired of Chasing After Women? Learn How to Attract Them

It is every man's dream to have women attracted to him even before he makes the first move. All women secretly want a man who they are proud of. They all want a prince charming who can make all their dreams come true. Though a perfect prince charming is hard to come by, as a man, you can do your best to make sure that women always want to be around you. You have to make sure that there is a woman out there who sees you as her prince charming. What makes some men stand out from the rest? Here are some of the reasons.

They are Easy to Get Along With

Women are more attracted to men who make them comfortable. Men who smile a lot tend to look more attractive. They are more approachable and they make women feel comfortable in their presence. When you smile, it shows that you are happy. Your moods are also more predictable. No one wants to be around a gloomy person who never finds fun in anything. You also need to learn how to be engaging, fun to be with and relaxed when around women. They will be able to open up to you more easily and look forward to your company even in the future. When you go out, do not be the guy who sits on his own and does not interact with others. Walk around, dance and socialize. Have fun.

Women Want Men Who Take Care of Themselves

Women can spot a man who takes care of himself from a distance. They all want a man who is clean, dresses smartly and gets time to shave. Choose your clothes wisely especially when going out on a date. Always wear clean clothes that fit you well. Choose colors wisely. You do not need to put on high fashion clothes, leave that for the celebrities, but make sure your clothes are appealing, comfortable and trendy. You also need to be clean. Nothing will drive women away faster that a man who smells of sweat or has bad breathe. You should also exercise regularly. It will tone your body and muscles leaving you looking more attractive. When you take care of yourself, your confidence levels go up. You will walk, talk and relate with women more confidently.

Women want a Focused, Ambitious Man

A man who is working and has control of his life is more likely to attract and keep women around for longer than someone who is not doing anything productive. You need to have dreams, ambitions and be focused. You should live a purposeful life. A woman can tell when you are focused and know what you want whether it is with your personal life, in a relationship and in your work life. Women want men who can offer them security in a relationship and even in life when involved in a serious relationship.

You do not have to spend a lot in your looks. You do not have to spend a lot of money on clothes or work out to look like a body builder. Simple daily routines may be all you need to take care of yourself. Also, remember to smile a lot. You will look more attractive. You will also get many more smiles in return.

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7 Tips on How to Recover and Thrive After Abuse

Let go of shame and reclaim your power

Shame and guilt are powerfully destructive emotions and can even lead to long term health problems. Shame is the result of self-judgment. Each day make a conscious effort to relax shame and guilt away by simply being the non-judgmental witness. Harbouring emotions like anger, resentment and especially fear, will GIVE him/her power over you. To reclaim your power release his emotional hold over you and your painful emotions triggered by him or memories of past events. Complete indifference is true power.

Get support from friends and family

In almost every case the abuser will have deliberately isolated his victim from their friends or family. They do this with antisocial and embarrassing behaviour around your friends and family, emotional blackmail, jealousy or simply not allowing you to speak to or visit friends. This means you lose that vital support network of your friends and family. Use any means you can to reconnect with old friends and make new ones. Your community and its support is vital to your recovery

Call for your Guardian Angel or any spiritual support

If you have a religious faith you might like to restore your connection with that again. If religions don't attract you then consider finding and cultivating your own personal connection to spirit or a higher power. If you don't feel a spiritual connection it's worth developing one.

Few would deny the need for humans to have a spiritual connection and for those recovering from abuse it is an essential. There is nothing more powerful than calling on the support of God, a spirit guide, or a guardian angel to protect you. In almost every case a victim skyrocketed their recovery by drawing strength from a higher power.

Refuse to be defined by what happened

Don't make it part of your identity. It is something that happened, not something you are. Everyone makes bad choices in their past. For example, I'm sure you that you once wore a really bad outfit. Just as you wouldn't define yourself as a "bad dresser" because of one bad outfit, so don't define yourself as a victim just because you were in an abusive relationship.

Do something empowering

Kick start your recovery by doing something positive and empowering. Anything that gives you a sense of achievement and inner satisfaction is perfect. This might mean you set yourself small challenges at first, and once you have succeeded with those, then move on to bigger ones Nothing moves you from Victim, through Survivor to a full blow THRIVER more quickly than achieving things on your own merit.

Get physically healthy and strong

Nurture, love and start to take care of your physical body. Start taking exercise and eating healthier foods. Increasing your physical strength and health will have a knock-on effect on your emotional wellbeing. It will increase your inner strength too.

Don't blame yourself

It was not your fault. You've probably heard this time and again, but all too often the victims of abuse still blame themselves. Abusers are masters of mind control and manipulation. He (or she) used psychological abuse as well as physical. Don't fall for it. Don't believe it. It was NOT your fault. You are not to blame. And you CAN and WILL fully recover.

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