When it comes to love, each of the partner will tend to fall for the other and vice versa.They say love is blind and many have admitted to it. In any serious relationship, it happens that each one will try to commit to the other. In other cases, one of them may not actually fulfill this as he/she is not in the mood. In most cases, male would find it easy to let their lives for the relationship. You will find a man changing tremendously and abandon his normal life. Although love is something that we can control, some male cannot easily balance it to a position of ruining their lives. If it happens that you are in a relationship, the following should not change in you.
As a man, be yourself and don't be carried away by storm. Even though you can say that you love her, she may not be on the same mind. If it happens that you are engaged to a girl and she changes your life from positive to negative, you better say no. There is no way you can change your lifetime goals for the one who may not even care. It is high time that you not only think about her but also other routines and objectives.
A relationship can always work out if let it is allowed. One thing that many men fail to understood and accept is waiting. You cannot expect to get her today, propose to her tomorrow and start a family on the 3rd day. That can never work even if you are a billionaire. Just like love takes time to heal, building it also take ages. The two of you need to take the process smoothly, learn each other until when nature takes it way. It will reach a point when it will flourish.
Imagine a scenario where you can't do anymore of what you were initially doing or had plans of doing. Suppose you were supposed to attend regular gym classes but you ceased for the sake of your love to him. Your lecturer found you absent during a seminar that would have contributed to your business skills. The reason being that she had booked you on that same day. It happens that your grades consistently going done because you delegated much of your study time to her.
Where are you heading to? Due to this situation you start to realize that you are losing the controls of your life. As a man, you ceased making your decision because she says and you bow down to her. You all life has changed and you cannot handle any responsibility.
To your surprise the so called girlfriend despises you. Your girl friend now sees you as stupid man who cannot handle anything. She becomes the first one to hate on you. What hurts here is that the lady didn't force you into anything but you just opted to go her way. There was any other weird spirit controlling. It is only you who are misleading himself.
The best thing for a gentleman is to focus on his goals without letting avoidable obstacles ruin him. Even though she would fake that exquisite love you gave to her, she will pretend to like it but the fact still remains that she sees you as an ignorant fellow.
Don't be overwhelmed by the pleasures of this world. Take a pen and write down about three goals of the year that you must achieve.
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