Have you ever watched those old TV shows back in the 90's and 80's. Well, one of the most popular of them all was "The Fresh Prince of Bel Air." Despite being several years old now, the show still has a lot of fans, particularly among those who were still in their teens when the show was still airing.
One of the most defining characteristics of the show was how Will Smith constantly hit on girls. Like Fonzie from Happy Days, Will Smith was the stereotypical cool guy. These kinds of characters, not only have great pick up lines, they also have the right facial expressions and body language to pull off a unique type of charismatic charm. Even in situations where he seems to get rejected, he still manages to remain at ease with himself.
Obviously, most of the guys we see on TV are over the top and surreal characters, but they can still teach us a thing or two on how to be attractive and assertive men. Most of the protagonists we see on TV, including Will Smith, approach women without even thinking about it. This impulsiveness may not always work, but it can be very attractive once you master it.
In Will Smith's case, he had a very flamboyant charm, somewhat similar to a young boy who will rush to open his presents under a Christmas Tree. In almost every episode, Will Smith expresses his mind spontaneously and without any thought to the consequences. Although this kind of behavior leads to outrageous situations, it's also what makes his character interesting. It's an attitude that simply say, "I won't be ignored."
In various episodes, Will Smith jumps, screams and makes unusual facial expressions, much to the consternation of the supporting characters. From the perspective of the audience, of course, such antics are pure entertainment. You will notice, for example, how some of the girls in the cast can't keep serious expressions, and will literally laugh and smile even when they're not supposed to. When this happens, the cameras immediately go back to Will Smith.
Now, this doesn't mean that you should turn yourself into a clone of Will Smith or even into a clone. What it does mean is that you need to act on your instincts. This is because women enjoy a highly animated personality. So if you want to flirt like an expert, try to unwind a little. Be playful, cheerful and when the opportunity is right, just say the first thing that comes into your head. The results may even surprise you.
Becoming a spontaneous, care free guy takes some practice. It's not something that you can master in one day, and it requires actually talking to women regularly. This may discourage some guys, but you should also remember that being spontaneous is its own reward. It shows that you are assertive, strong and very open about who you are. Most women like these qualities and they will consider you more attractive for it. So remember, be your own Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.
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