Learn the Tricks Women May Use to Keep You Away!

The response that a man may get from a woman may be very surprising and unbelievable. I never knew that women could say anything to keep a man off. They are even willing to say anything shameful you may think of about themselves to ensure that a man does not initiate any chats with them. The words a woman may use to describe herself may only be meant to make you uninterested with her and they may not be true. I came to know this the other day, when I went with my friend for a night out.

Below is a summary of what we experienced during the session.

While with my friend, we noticed a group of three, hot girls who were also hanging out and we decided to initiate some chats with them. We exchanged the basic information about ourselves and while still introducing themselves, two of the girls confessed that they were lesbian partners. ''lesbians' I asked myself, I had never imagined that I would meet a lesbian in my life, leave alone dating one. I lost interest in the discussion. It is true that the girls were beautiful but on mentioning that they they were lesbians, the feelings, interests and even thoughts that I had developed in them were driven away from me. My friend seemed not to believe them and I was surprised. I even demanded that we leave them immediately but he still continued to get busy with them.

The day we met the girls brought some teachings in my life. I came to learn that the women we see might not be thinking what we expect them to think of. I managed to learn this after having a discussion with my friend. The reason why my friend continued talking with them was that he knew that the girls were not necessarily lesbians but they were only trying to discourage us. They only chose to mention that shameful thing with the hope of driving us away. Such responses from women are common especially in clubs and men should be prepared to handle them. Otherwise, as a man you will end up saying I have not found a woman.

What to do if you receive such responses from women?

First, you have to acknowledge the reply you get. Tell the girl that you like her confidence and openness. You should show an appreciation of her openness. By doing that, you will be setting the base for the discussion and therefore at that point, the girl will start to open up since she has noticed that you have some interest in her. It is important to know that all women are similar and they tend to respond to similar situations in almost similar ways. For example, how many women have told you that they have boyfriends when you try to seduce them? It could be true that they have boyfriends but even those who do not have will use the same excuse. The trick here is that you should persevere and try as much as you can to progress the discussion.

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Are You Tired of Chasing After Women? Learn How to Attract Them

It is every man's dream to have women attracted to him even before he makes the first move. All women secretly want a man who they are proud of. They all want a prince charming who can make all their dreams come true. Though a perfect prince charming is hard to come by, as a man, you can do your best to make sure that women always want to be around you. You have to make sure that there is a woman out there who sees you as her prince charming. What makes some men stand out from the rest? Here are some of the reasons.

They are Easy to Get Along With

Women are more attracted to men who make them comfortable. Men who smile a lot tend to look more attractive. They are more approachable and they make women feel comfortable in their presence. When you smile, it shows that you are happy. Your moods are also more predictable. No one wants to be around a gloomy person who never finds fun in anything. You also need to learn how to be engaging, fun to be with and relaxed when around women. They will be able to open up to you more easily and look forward to your company even in the future. When you go out, do not be the guy who sits on his own and does not interact with others. Walk around, dance and socialize. Have fun.

Women Want Men Who Take Care of Themselves

Women can spot a man who takes care of himself from a distance. They all want a man who is clean, dresses smartly and gets time to shave. Choose your clothes wisely especially when going out on a date. Always wear clean clothes that fit you well. Choose colors wisely. You do not need to put on high fashion clothes, leave that for the celebrities, but make sure your clothes are appealing, comfortable and trendy. You also need to be clean. Nothing will drive women away faster that a man who smells of sweat or has bad breathe. You should also exercise regularly. It will tone your body and muscles leaving you looking more attractive. When you take care of yourself, your confidence levels go up. You will walk, talk and relate with women more confidently.

Women want a Focused, Ambitious Man

A man who is working and has control of his life is more likely to attract and keep women around for longer than someone who is not doing anything productive. You need to have dreams, ambitions and be focused. You should live a purposeful life. A woman can tell when you are focused and know what you want whether it is with your personal life, in a relationship and in your work life. Women want men who can offer them security in a relationship and even in life when involved in a serious relationship.

You do not have to spend a lot in your looks. You do not have to spend a lot of money on clothes or work out to look like a body builder. Simple daily routines may be all you need to take care of yourself. Also, remember to smile a lot. You will look more attractive. You will also get many more smiles in return.

By the way, do you want the simple secret for approaching any woman, anywhere and know exactly what to say to get her number?

If so, download my free report here: conversation blueprint report

Or do you want to learn how I use text to attract and seduce beautiful women - and how you can too? If so, read this report here: 7 Deadly Texting Secrets

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Why Do Women Stay in Abusive Relationships?

"Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity." -W. Clement Stone

There are many reasons why women stay in abusive relationships but one of the main reasons is because they don't believe they deserve better. And, unfortunately they don't know how wrong they are. Depending on the degree of abuse a woman is experiencing will also be a factor in whether she leaves or not.

Often times the thought of leaving an abuser is more frightening than staying because you fear for your life or your children's lives if you try to leave. And if this is your experience I urgently recommend you find a way to call the National Domestic Violence Hotline, they are available 24/7. Even if you have to have a friend or family member call for you, do it.

WHAT IS YOUR REASON FOR STAYING?

50 abuse survivors were questioned by the NFJCA asking why they didn't leave. One of the most common answers was, "I was scared he was going to kill me if I left." Others being, "I thought it would change" and "I thought I could fix it." But, the most common response was, "Because I loved him."

Several other reasons women use for not leaving an abusive partner are:

Lack of money, can't survive without his support.

Fear of being alone, not being able to deal with children and home.

It's really not that bad.

Maybe I do things to provoke him.

That's just the way he is.

Not believing you will ever find anyone who will want you.

Wanting to keep the family together.

STOP MAKING EXCUSES

Unfortunately the reality is that women who stay in abusive relationships lie to themselves. They make weak excuses for horrible treatment from their partners. They can't face the truth about the man they are involved with.

They continue to put themselves in harm's way to be blatantly disrespected, talked down to as if they're a dog, physically beaten and kicked to the curb as if they're trash. Worst of all they expose innocent children to witness this kind of chaos.

Most people can't understand why someone would want to stay with someone that hurts them. But when the number one reason victims give as to why they stay is because "they love them." It becomes clear that somewhere along the line they created a false idea of what love is.

Many times if you look in their past history you will see that they came from some kind of abuse or lack of healthy love when growing up. So they seek out the same kind of distant and unavailable partners, just like what they were familiar with when they were young, and they try and get them to love them.

In the circle of life, in some perverse way if they can get this person to love them it will validate their worth and prove to themselves that, "See I am worth loving." But, sadly, they are simply setting themselves up for more heartache and pain in life.

THIS IS YOUR WAKE-UP CALL

If you find yourself in an abusive relationships trying to get your partner to change or to love you or to treat you the way most normal people are treated; you have a better chance of winning the lottery.

Until you open your eyes and begin to tell yourself the truth, you will continue to remain living this nightmare you call your life. You will NEVER find the peace and happiness that you long for and you will live the rest of your life exactly as you are now, plus more than likely, it will only get worse.

If you can't find the courage inside to be honest with yourself about this man and your relationship at least find the courage to do it for your children. Every time you are beaten, or intimidated, or put down verbally or emotionally you might as well be doing it directly to your children as well.

The negative, destructive impact that you are causing your children will wreak havoc in their lives as they grow. You are teaching them how to put up with abuse and make excuses and how to abuse. So, if you don't want to leave because you love him so much, maybe it's time to love yourself and your children more.

Ultimately, it comes down to being your choice. What are you going to do?

Are you in an abusive relationship trying to decide whether to stay or go? Do you want to find out more about how to stop wasting your time and begin living your best life now. There Is Life After What's-His-Name will tell you how. Susan's work has inspired people from all over the world to take back their power! We all make decisions everyday, why not make the decision to live a better life starting now?

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Why Women at the Club Are Hard to Get

I had a remarkable realization about approaching women the other day, something that I believe all men can benefit from. Who would have thought that I would have this epiphany at the doctor's office, of all places?

It so happens that I wasn't feeling well that day so I paid my doctor a visit. The guy's an excellent physician; every time I come to see him, he treats my condition successfully and he gives me exactly what I need. But for all his strengths, he has a major flaw: he doesn't quite look or act the way you would expect a typical doctor to.

What I mean is, the first thing you would notice about this guy is that he's small, chubby and awkward - he's nothing like those charming M.D.'s you see on television. He doesn't radiate the tiniest bit of charisma, and there isn't anything special about him at all. Outside of his office, he'd easily be the type of person that no one pays any attention to. But at his place of work, everyone listens to him and respects him, despite his slight stature - simply because he's the boss. In that particular environment (his office), he commands a great amount of authority and power.

In the same way, a woman has a degree of superiority in a certain setting - the club. She feels more empowered in a club than she usually would in her everyday environment. Note that a woman generally takes on a more dressed-up, more dolled-up persona when she goes clubbing: she purposely puts together a whole look that makes her her feel self-assured, glamorous and alluring. To some men, she might even appear intimidating. She's also aware that the dramatic lighting in the club makes her look striking - an effect she can't quite create in daylight. On top of all this, she knows that she's in a place where men would likely chat her up, and that she has the privileged position to turn down anyone she doesn't find the least bit attractive.

Clearly, this frame of reference won't work in your favor so easily.

For this reason, I highly recommend men to approach women outside of the club setting, too. Meeting someone during the daytime is actually quite advantageous. Without the lights and glamour of the nightlife, you're just two ordinary individuals living regular lives. In a normal, everyday environment, you're equals.

Remember the hot, sexy vixen you saw at the club last night, the one who you knew for sure was going to blow you off with a bitchy vindictiveness? You might just find her at your local Starbucks tomorrow morning - the plain Jane in her blue jeans, sitting alone and unnoticed in the corner. Now, doesn't she seem more approachable, even attainable?

If you're seriously hoping to have a lady in your life, this is something worth keeping in mind: You have better chances at a date with an ordinary girl who you meet in a normal, daytime setting, rather than with the fully made-up glamazon at the club.

By the way, do you want the simple secret for approaching any woman, anywhere and know exactly what to say to get her number?

If so, download my free report here: conversation blueprint report

Or do you want to learn how I use text to attract and seduce beautiful women - and how you can too? If so, read this report here: 7 Deadly Texting Secrets

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